Comments on: To LDS women: beware of kissing http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/ Not your average Mormon blog Sat, 07 Nov 2009 21:49:08 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Gonzalo Sardiña http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-3745 Gonzalo Sardiña Tue, 27 Oct 2009 01:50:37 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-3745 Good knowledge. I apreciate and enjoy things like this. GO ON ¡ Thanks. Good knowledge. I apreciate and enjoy things like this. GO ON ¡

Thanks.

]]> By: Brutus Epiglottis http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-3726 Brutus Epiglottis Sat, 17 Oct 2009 13:26:02 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-3726 Men too can become victims of infatuation. Yes – kissing and petting can cause impaired judgment in both males & females – so beware of your passions. However, being frigid is no way to live either. Clearly living in a sexually unsatisfying relationship is not Heavenly Father’s plan for anyone. Married couples should be having lots of good healthy sex. Good sex is awesome and as I understand, it is totally cool with God. If we are all spiritual offspring of the same Heavenly Father; then golly heck, you do the math – there was/is a whole lot of kissing going on during the premortal existence. Therefore, I agree with the author of this article as far as keeping our judgments intact and not allowing passion and infatuation to impair our thinking. But, I warn the author and readers against being fearful prudes who go through married life sexual inhibited and unhappy. It is well worth the risk of stepping out of your safe legalistic cocoon to learn that there is a universe of fun, fantasy, discovery, creativity and fulfillment within your temple marriage. Men too can become victims of infatuation.

Yes – kissing and petting can cause impaired judgment in both males & females – so beware of your passions. However, being frigid is no way to live either. Clearly living in a sexually unsatisfying relationship is not Heavenly Father’s plan for anyone.

Married couples should be having lots of good healthy sex. Good sex is awesome and as I understand, it is totally cool with God. If we are all spiritual offspring of the same Heavenly Father; then golly heck, you do the math – there was/is a whole lot of kissing going on during the premortal existence.

Therefore, I agree with the author of this article as far as keeping our judgments intact and not allowing passion and infatuation to impair our thinking. But, I warn the author and readers against being fearful prudes who go through married life sexual inhibited and unhappy. It is well worth the risk of stepping out of your safe legalistic cocoon to learn that there is a universe of fun, fantasy, discovery, creativity and fulfillment within your temple marriage.

]]> By: Matthew http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-3713 Matthew Sun, 11 Oct 2009 12:10:14 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-3713 Do said four kisses have to be on the lips? Because I would rather just kiss a girl four times on the cheek, but if I did that, I might be sitting around wondering why this oxytocin bonding didn't happen. Do said four kisses have to be on the lips? Because I would rather just kiss a girl four times on the cheek, but if I did that, I might be sitting around wondering why this oxytocin bonding didn’t happen.

]]> By: JL http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-2694 JL Tue, 03 Feb 2009 23:47:10 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-2694 I tell my kids, "If you never start, you'll never have to stop." This works for everything that is dubious. Drinking, drugs, sex, and yes...kissing. Take away kissing and how many people would not have pre-marital sex? There's a correlation here I think. Personally, I didn't kiss my, not husband, until we kissed across the alter on our wedding day. It wasn't painful or weird. It just kept our relationship to getting to know each other and our compatibility, without all the interruptions that can lead down bad roads. I don't think our way is for everyone, but that is the guys hormones talking. I tell my kids, “If you never start, you’ll never have to stop.” This works for everything that is dubious. Drinking, drugs, sex, and yes…kissing. Take away kissing and how many people would not have pre-marital sex? There’s a correlation here I think. Personally, I didn’t kiss my, not husband, until we kissed across the alter on our wedding day. It wasn’t painful or weird. It just kept our relationship to getting to know each other and our compatibility, without all the interruptions that can lead down bad roads. I don’t think our way is for everyone, but that is the guys hormones talking.

]]> By: Peter http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-2225 Peter Sun, 02 Nov 2008 19:42:06 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-2225 Horrible article. Horrible article.

]]> By: amanda q http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-1316 amanda q Wed, 02 Jul 2008 04:08:32 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-1316 This is a joke, right? I'm totally laughing, either way. Thanks for the post. This is a joke, right?

I’m totally laughing, either way. Thanks for the post.

]]> By: Deidre http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-654 Deidre Mon, 17 Mar 2008 23:56:38 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-654 LMAO. I'm a 20 year old religiously-confused female and I've never kissed or been kissed because I believe that intimacies between people are very special and should be engaged in only when "the time is right". I'm supposing that this 'time' will be whenever I feel comfortable enough. Sounds like I'm imtimately-confused too huh? :| But anyway, thanks for the advice. It sure made me laugh. LMAO.

I’m a 20 year old religiously-confused female and I’ve never kissed or been kissed because I believe that intimacies between people are very special and should be engaged in only when “the time is right”. I’m supposing that this ‘time’ will be whenever I feel comfortable enough. Sounds like I’m imtimately-confused too huh? :|

But anyway, thanks for the advice. It sure made me laugh.

]]> By: Flechelle Morin http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-607 Flechelle Morin Sun, 27 Jan 2008 21:56:23 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-607 Thank you for a very accurate synopsis of my work. I appreciate you passing along the word! Sincerely, Flechelle Morin Dating to Marriage Consultant www.nokissing.com Thank you for a very accurate synopsis of my work. I appreciate you passing along the word!

Sincerely,

Flechelle Morin
Dating to Marriage Consultant
http://www.nokissing.com

]]> By: Johnna http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-515 Johnna Fri, 11 Jan 2008 10:12:40 +0000 http://ldsanarchy.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/to-lds-women-beware-of-kissing/#comment-515 I dunno--I'm a 42 year old woman who kissed ten guys before she married 20 years ago. And though I don't have regrets, I do mildly wish I had kissed those two or three other guys that I liked so well at the time. I dunno–I’m a 42 year old woman who kissed ten guys before she married 20 years ago. And though I don’t have regrets, I do mildly wish I had kissed those two or three other guys that I liked so well at the time.

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